parents and kids shouldn’t be in a relationship of getting liked or hated.  ”i just wanted you to like me”  yes, that sure is nice if they like you back but the bond you have with them doesn’t exist there; it can’t be defined as “like” or “hate”.  the moment you start thinking in those terms, you’re no longer a family.  getting “liked” is and shouldn’t be the issue.  perhaps thinking someone who you’re not actually related to as a family member is similar to that; it’s not about whether they like you or not and not about worrying if they do. it’s waay over those things.  i might not make sense, people might have things to say to this, and I myself in the future might look back to this and criticize this, but that’s what i felt after watching that film.  i thought, “i hope i don’t make my child(if i ever have one) think in terms of getting ‘liked’ by me.  and make them ‘think’ they like me”. if i do, i would like to show this film to myself once again

I sort of started to notice how I am stopping to care about the whole “who’s suffering most/having a bitchy life and is the poor main character of a horrible terrible story” shit. ah really fuck that shit  big deal girls